The Argument You’ll Never Win

Any of them.

Arguments are battles you swear you’ve won but always lose.

Grown men shouldn’t argue. Because grown men don’t argue into peace. We argue ourselves into rage. We don’t settle down through words thrown like fists; we escalate. Anger. Madness. Violence.

And the truth is, men don’t fight. Men kill. So why pretend that arguing is anything less than a slow bleed-out?

Arguments thrill fools. They’re a broke man’s favorite deal. Cheap power, expensive consequences.

Do you remember your favorite argument?

The one that ended the way you dreamed it:

• where you walked away stronger,

• where your relationship deepened,

• where you got the apology you deserved,

• where the loser felt respected instead of crushed.

Do you remember that?

Men skip arguments. Not out of fear, but out of mastery. We know how fast life can be taken, and how fast it can fall apart.

Peace is not won by proving points, it’s won by protecting your presence.

Rules of engagement for argument and conflict resolution:

• Jay-Z said "A wise man doesn't argue with a fool, because bystanders won't know who's who.

• Stop talking, breathe deep and think do I want to become the person I'm arguing with!

What argument are you still holding onto that cost you peace?

To All the Father's wondering "HOW THE FUCK DO I DO THIS"

My advice is, Just Don't Pull Out!