STRONG MEN. Weak Moments.
You are a legacy of a-lot of things going right, even though it feels like so many things are going wrong.
You live forever through your children. Help them exceed the vision of being held captive. Thinking they aren't good enough because of your doubts, echoing society's shouts. Believing they aren't great because they didn't start that way. So, they half ass consistency, sprinting with the baggage from a father's past they're cheered on to carry. Running and hustling for a sport they don't care for, so they drop lower in life like the posture of a fiend.
A strong man's weak moments are letting his children live in his disappointment because they didn't live up to his expectations. Children have their own lives they need to discover and craft. Children are the most beautiful, precious art. Weak moments turn masterpieces into frauds.
A strong man's weak moments allow negative thoughts to create similar outcomes for interactions that should lead and end with love and positivity.
Being real about how you feel will help strengthen the approach to healing. Yes! Children encourage the rage, but parents feed the monster when they refuse to see their child's perspective.
Children will struggle to see their parent's perspective because they aren't adults. They don't understand permanent consequences of avoiding a responsibility to feel free.
A strong man's weak moment is believing sacrifice means giving up what he wants forever and holding a grudge. This means he can't receive or hold on to things that make him happy and necessary for the lives he is supposed to lead.
A strongman remembers his weak moments and is conscious of how he raises his. Teaching kids' strategic violence is what men respect and women want under covers more than a gentleman.
Strongmen remember they don't have to get high during weak moments to see the world is theirs. They know salary is a key, but knowledge, integrity and healthy relationships unlocks their destiny.
Music I'm Enjoying
Nas , Damien "Jr. Gong" Marley album (DISTANT RELATIVES)
Books I'm Reading
Confessions of Nat Turner
Dad Joke
How did the Burger king get the Dairy Queen pregnant?
He forgot to wrap his whopper.
To all the Father's wondering HOW THE FUCK DO I DO THIS?
My advice is "Just don't pull out!"
