IDENTITY

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I didn’t grow up with anyone who had a father in their home. The males who showed spirit were monsters of abuse.

When you see the worst of someone, at times you want to prove there's something better. You also learn what men and women are capable of: how to bend them to your will, and what they are willing to give and accept.

Fathers have to be active. You represent an example of everything your children strive for or avoid.

Men think they are the gods who create life, so you must have the consciousness to walk a path that builds and strengthens your purpose, intelligence, and bank account, more than your body count. Loose women cost you everything. Their only stable benefit is changing their mind to get ahead. And all it does is drain you.

What Being a Father Truly Means

They say any man can get some pussy and make a life. Being a father is more than just a title. It's a commandment. It's a dedication to raise a world that turns struggles into blessings and grows during life's normal and disturbing turns.

It means being able to provide safety, love, communication, awareness, acceptance, love, pain, loyalty, honesty, riches, wealth, health, and a place to listen.

Building minds that will last.

And... Providing a calm love that doesn’t need performance.

Values, Strength & Foundation

When we choose to be thoughtful fathers, we choose the values we want to embody. Your reactions should strengthen your family's character, not make them regret they involved you or showed proof of struggle.

Fatherhood can feel like you're going through puberty every night, overcoming the stresses we carry home, cracking the foundation we work hard to build. Stand firm. Be your own master.

Following the trend of influence will make you live the blues. That ain't the peace a man closes his eyes and hopes for. A man without a mind and discipline of his own won't be able to stand on his, and his family will fall for anything. We are presented with an overwhelming amount of goals to chase: bodies and bank accounts to copy.

Now I see why modest grandmothers were the original wonder women. Why men want homemakers, to raise good humans. Sadly, now, fucking reckless makes you popular and is somehow the definition of what a strong woman ought to be.

I was raised that a woman who was easy to pop meant she was never the one to be with. Her mind contains the secrets of a fallen demon, tricking you to believe she is heaven's lost secret.

A woman with a lot of bodies is like sleeping with a corpse; her bedroom is a morgue. Styles she laid to rest to style the man who will be laid next. Bodies and minds change. When you transition from absent to paying attention, it always feels too late. You lose sight of reasons for mistakes and own excuses instead of responsibility.

Listen and observe the identity shift in your woman. When her focus turns to interaction with objects she should use when alone, it’s time to change or move on.

Keep your lust locked on the one you're with. It will feel impossible when focus shifts to the children because you forget the baby you chose to create with.

Music I'm Enjoying

Kipp Stone

Books I'm Reading (The Holy Ones)

From Niggaz to Gods.

Dad Joke

What has two butts and kills people? An assassin!

To all the Father's wondering HOW THE FUCK DO I DO THIS?

My advice is "Just don't pull out!